Your Sex Life Shouldn't Be Ruined By What's Going On In Your Head

Hypnotherapy for sexually adventurous adults who want to overcome mental blocks, performance anxiety, shame, jealousy, trauma, and other barriers to intimacy and pleasure.

Swingers • Nudists • Kinksters • BDSM • Polyamory • Fetishes

Let's Talk About What's Getting In Your Way

You don't have to explain your lifestyle to me, because I get you.

You shouldn't have to spend half your session explaining what a "playroom" is, defending consensual non-monogamy, explaining your kink and dungeon etiquette, or wondering whether your therapist is silently judging you.

I've been part of sexually adventurous communities since 2009, and currently live in a swinger-friendly nudist community.

What is an Erotic Hypnotherapist? Traci explains in this video.

Hi! I'm Traci

Traci Kanaan is a certified hypnotherapist, lifestyle coach, and former stand-up comedian who blends deep therapeutic skill with real-world experience in erotic communities. Since 2009, she’s been immersed in the swinging, nudist, BDSM, and kink worlds, giving her unique insight into the desires, challenges, and nuances of sexually adventurous adults.

Known for her warm, nonjudgmental approach, Traci helps clients release mental blocks, heal from past experiences, and embrace their sexuality with confidence and joy. Her sessions combine hypnosis, hypnotherapy, and lifestyle coaching to create a safe space where pleasure is celebrated and shame is left at the door.

When she’s not guiding clients toward erotic empowerment, Traci brings her trademark humor and lightheartedness to everything she does—because she knows the journey to deeper pleasure should be as fun as it is transformative.

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So, what can erotic hypnotherapy help with?

Performance & Pleasure

Performance anxiety
Difficulty staying aroused
Difficulty reaching orgasm
Mental blocks during intimacy

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Swinging & Ethical Non-Monogamy

Jealousy
Confidence with new partners
Playroom anxiety
Condom-related performance issues

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Kink & Fetish

Conflicting feelings about desires
Shame
Guilt
Fetish overwhelm
Custom hypnosis
Managing kinks and fetishes

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BDSM & Power Exchange

Navigating D/s dynamics
Relationship boundaries
Removing unwanted previous hypnotic conditioning

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Sexual Confidence

Body confidence
Fear of judgment
Difficulty expressing desires
Shame and guilt
Partner communication

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Past Experiences

Emotional responses
Triggers connected with previous experiences
Past relationships that may affect present sexual performance

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Just a few of the cases I've worked with...

Confidence Issues In Swinging

A male client wanted to explore the swinging lifestyle but lacked the confidence to approach other women about having sex with him. I assisted him in building his confidence to the point where, a few years later, I unexpectedly ran into him at a club. He even asked me out! (I respectfully declined due to our professional relationship, but the next woman he approached accepted his offer!)

Erectile Dysfunction

One of my clients was struggling with sexual performance issues due to an overwhelming fetish and excessively high self-expectations in the bedroom. I worked with him to explore the origins of his fetish, helping him come to terms with it. Additionally, I assisted him in balancing the expectations he had for himself during intimacy, guiding him to shift his focus from “achieving results” to “enjoying prolonged sexual experiences.”

Not Being Able to Swallow Semen

I had a client who had been happily married for over 20 years but struggled with the act of swallowing. Upon exploring her history, I discovered that she had a medical issue with her throat as a child, which contributed to her aversion to swallowing. I assisted her in processing the experience related to her medical issue and then reprogrammed her mindset to visualize her husband as a provider of her favorite beverage.

Helping Swingers Enjoy The Lifestyle

My client had been in a monogamous relationship for 35 years. He and his wife wanted to explore swinging, but he faced several challenges with "performing" with a new partner while using a condom, especially with others in the same room. To address this, I hypnotized him so he could enjoy protected sex with a new partner, whether in private or in a playroom.

Master/Slave Relationships

I had a client who adored his wife and wanted to be her devoted slave around the clock. However, after a few weeks, they would have arguments, leading to months of no intimacy. Using my experience as a lifestyle coach, I helped them manage their expectations and establish time limits for their sessions. Additionally, I created two hypnosis recordings for him in his native language to help him maintain his submissive mindset.

Gay Leather Lifestyle Guilt & Shame

Exploring the Gay Leather Lifestyle. I had a client who was eager to embrace the gay leather lifestyle. He would sign up and pay to attend events, but ultimately, he would stay home due to feelings of guilt and shame, as well as fear of being discovered by someone he knew. Through hypnotherapy, we uncovered the internal conflict he faced between wanting to express himself and feeling the need to be responsible. We worked together to help him navigate these feelings and move forward.

Hypno-Slave Reprogramming

A client of mine, who described herself as a "slave," asked for help in undoing some hypnotic suggestions that her former "Master/Owner" had imposed on her. He had established multiple suggestions binding her exclusively to him. After their breakup, she sought to remove his programming. I helped her reverse these suggestions and empowered her to create new triggers that she could share with anyone she chooses.

Post Hypnotic Suggestion Reversal

One of my highly suggestible clients received a post-hypnotic suggestion from a Hypno Femme Domme, stating that he would be unable to get aroused with another woman if they ever broke up. After they eventually ended their relationship, a few months later he entered a new one and realized what had happened. I was able to override her post-hypnotic suggestion by giving him a new one that he could assign to his new partner. Additionally, I provided him with a multi-orgasmic trigger.

Custom Fetish/Kink Hypnosis Recordings

Many of my clients have tried online hypnosis recordings and find that it just doesn't quite meet their needs. What I do is figure out exactly what my client needs, and then work with them to create an effective, hypnosis recording. Some examples: a recording to enhance a slave's obedience to his Mistress, ramping up an 80's female mud wrestling fetish, and encouraging compliance with wearing a chastity device.

Being one of the few Erotic / Sex Hypnotherapists in the world, I get some weird requests.

I’m a certified hypnotist and hypnotherapist, and a proud member of several professional organizations. I also have the joy of teaching other hypnotists and therapists the techniques I’ve developed.

Because I want every session to be safe, ethical, and truly beneficial, I only take on work that aligns with my expertise, values, and professional standards. That’s why, if you’re interested in Erotic or Sex Hypnotherapy, we’ll start with a Consultation Call, either In-Person or Virtual. I do this so we can interview each other and see if we can work together. We'll discuss your issues and goals, and I'll propose a few options on how to get you to where you want to be, including the number of sessions I think you'll need as well as the cost.

Before you book your call, please review the following:

Sessions I Don't Accept (see section below)

Wings Hypnosis Client Agreement

Privacy Policy

Terms of Service

Yes, I've been asked.

No, I don't do these kinds of sessions.

These are my "NFW Sessions."

To maintain a safe, ethical, legal, and professional practice, I reserve the right to decline or terminate any session request that falls outside my scope of services or professional standards.

Any attempt to engage in a prohibited, inappropriate, unsafe, or illegal activity may result in the immediate termination of the session, forfeiture of any remaining sessions in a package, and without a refund.

The following requests are not accepted:

Any session involving nudity, masturbation, sexual activity, or sexual services.
Dominance/submission role-play in which I serve as a Mistress, Dominant, Top, submissive, slave, or bottom.
Hypnosis intended to create romantic or emotional attachment, including attempts to make yourself or another person "fall in love."
Hypnosis intended to erase, suppress, or permanently alter memories of people or events.
Requests for free sessions in exchange for services, favors, or other compensation.
Any fantasy, role-play, or scenario involving children or animals.
Any activity that could cause harm to yourself, others, children, or animals.
Incest-related fantasies, role-play, or scenarios.
Violence, mutilation, physical injury, or bodily harm of any kind.
Self-harm, suffocation, breath play, auto-erotic asphyxiation, or any activity that presents a risk of injury or death.
Hypnosis involving blood, bodily waste, or similar bodily-fluid-related activities.
Financial domination or hypnosis intended to compel financial decisions, gifts, or transfers of money.
Hypnosis designed to surrender complete personal autonomy, judgment, or decision-making authority to another person.
BDSM-related hypnosis involving owned slaves or submissives without prior consultation and documented consent from all relevant parties.
Instruction in using hypnosis to manipulate, seduce, coerce, or influence another person without their informed consent.
Any activity that does not align with the principles of informed consent, personal responsibility, risk awareness, and mutual respect.

All sessions must remain within legal, ethical, and professional boundaries and adhere to the principles of informed consent and personal responsibility.